Today is day 15th in the 28 days of gratitude in the Magic by Rhonda Byrne. This lesson focuses on relationships that need to be healed or fixed. Sometimes we cannot fix a relationship, so we need to learn to focus on the good part of the relationship and then release the negative feelings or hurt.
Holding on to bad feelings is really toxic and can weigh you down and stop you from moving forward. Anger and grudges destroy you they are like ingesting poison and hoping the other person will die, this just pollutes us and kills us very slowly. Ever been around someone filled with so much hate or animosity for someone? How they are so negative and sometimes even vile that you want to run from them? No one wants to harbor those negative feelings and it can be difficult if someone really hurt you or did something wrong to you. But by allowing those negative feelings stay inside you and consume you, you are letting them win. Being controlled by your anger is not a healthy thing and learning to come to terms is the only way you can move on.
You may never forgive or repair what has happened but learning to make peace with it for the sake of healing. I know personally, I have had things happen and I had to learn to deal with it, acknowledge it and then make the decision to release it from me. I will not forget the hurt but it no longer rules me and I have chosen to not let it affect me or my life in anyway. There is no room in my life for anger or hurt only positive love and positive energy.
It takes awhile to get there but the first step is wanting to get there and heal yourself. Below is a lesson for day 15, that may help you get started on the healing process.
Lesson day 15: Magically Heal Your Relationships:
1.) Count your blessings- make a list of ten things that you are grateful for and write why next to them. Say the magic words out loud three times for each one and feel as grateful as you can.
2.) Choose one difficult or broken relationship that you want to fix or work on.
3.) Sit down and make a list of ten things that you are grateful for about that person. write it down like name of person and what you are grateful for.
4.) Just before you go to sleep think back over your day while holding your magic rock. Think of the best thing that happened to you that day and say thank you.
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